3 November 2016
Moving from
Australia to Peru
By Rosanne Menacho
Moving house is said to be one of the most stressful
experiences of life, and when that move is to another country, the process becomes
even more complex. It was during our last visit to Peru in February this year
that Josue and I decided the time had come to live with his family for a while,
especially seeing as it had been 15 years since he had left his hometown for
study and work in other cities, settling in Australia in 2005. We
purchased our tickets on a special offer within two weeks of making the
decision, and shared the news with my family via video chat. They were
understandably saddened, but recognised what a great opportunity this would be
to reconnect with relatives in Peru and for me to have a turn being the
‘foreigner’ – learning a new culture and system, and increasing my language
skills in Spanish (and perhaps learn some Quechua too!).
So we returned to Australia with eight months to finish work
and study and sell most of our possessions in preparation for the move. I
started selling things I wasn’t using almost straight away, and knuckled down to
continue my Master of Interpreting and Translation Studies at Monash University
(hoping to finish before we moved). Everything continued full steam ahead until
I had a big energy crash at the end of first semester, having developed stage
3-4 adrenal fatigue (burnout) from years of pushing myself too hard and then
classroom teaching followed by full-time study. We all have our limits, and I
discovered mine at age 26! As a result, I reduced my activities down to
part-time study, hosting international students and selling our things,
thankful that my final masters unit could be completed by distance from Peru in
2017.
Two months before leaving, my parents came to look over the
house we were renting from them in Pakenham and we made a list of things to fix
and things to touch up. This became a joint project during September, readying
the house for the 12 inspections in October which eventually attracted new
tenants (due to move in on 11 November 2016).
Two weeks before leaving, Josué finished work to help me
with house cleaning and clearing, and I finished my major translation project a
few days later and handed it in (the project was translating Latin American
Christian songs from Spanish into English). My sister Christy came over to help
lay out and label our remaining household goods, ready for a drop-in
farewell/indoor garage sale on Sunday 23 October. We sold most of our goods on
the day and enjoyed time with family and friends, and some of Josue’s Peruvian
friends came over the collect most of the remainder the next morning while Dad
loaded furniture for my parents and for the op shop in a rental truck.
Monday 24 October we moved to my parents’ house for a week
of sorting, visits, music, games and meals together, and treated ourselves to a
couple of 1-hour massages on the Friday to get loosened up before flying on
Monday 31 October.
The day of the flights started early with a 3am wake up. We
flew first from Melbourne to Auckland (New Zealand), then to Santiago (Chile)
and on to Lima (Peru). The dense sea of smog above Lima city (pictured) was a
wake-up call to the tragic consequences of the ‘convenience’ lifestyle for
producer cities, and a strong motivator to meet our basic needs in a
planet-friendly way while living in Huancayo. After a night of relaxation at
the Costa del Sol hotel connected to Lima airport, we took the 35-minute
domestic flight from Lima to Jauja and Josue’s family met us there to drive us
to their home in Huancayo, Junín region, Peru.
Sea of smog hanging above Lima city |
Sunset as we flew in to Lima |
View looking left out of the hotel window |
View looking straight ahead out of the hotel window |
The domestic plane we took to Jauja airport |
At different points in the preparation and moving process, it
was interesting answering the question ‘How are you feeling?’ The answer was
usually some variation of ‘nervous and excited’, but in the end all I felt was
peace and enjoyment of each experience at hand and the people around me. Eight
months turned out to be a good amount of time to sell things and prepare for
such a big transition – it’s a similar length to a pregnancy once you include
the initial weeks of ‘knowing’ but not yet being able to do much about it. Our
friends and family were very supportive, encouraging and helpful, and by focusing
on relationship in the final weeks this allowed for a smoother transition and
positive ‘send-off’. The way one leaves a place is extremely important and we
wanted to show each person in our lives that we value them, and that we are not
so much ‘leaving them’ as continuing our relationship from a distance so that
we can nurture relationships which have been waiting at a distance in Peru for
a number of years. In the many farewells, it felt as though we collected gifts
of love and affection from each person which we will treasure and appreciate, especially when challenges present themselves during our time in Peru.
And so here we are, finally in Peru. To honour the
opportunity we have been given to move here, I now really want to focus on
exploring my new surroundings and building deep relationships with the people
around us, meaning that I will need to limit the time I spend chatting with my
friends and family in Australia. My plan is to write a blog post once a month,
and have an interactive prayer support network on Facebook Messenger for mutual
encouragement. Josue and I recognise that life has a supernatural as well as a
physical dimension, and want the opportunity to rejoice with our loved ones in
God’s blessings as well as seek his help and guidance in the many twists and
turns of life.
We hope you all enjoyed the long weekend and ‘see you’ for
next month’s blog post.
How wonderful it was to see you both on 23 rd October and now to hear more about your exciting journey. We have a Peruvian in our small home group who was most interested to hear that our niece was moving to Peru. We will look forward to each month's blog and are happy to pray for you on our own but also in our home group if you would be happy for that. Love Chris and Liz
ReplyDeleteIt is so lovely to hear from you and find out about your journey emotional, spiritual and physical! The pictures are really helpful in imagining the changes. I look forward to each instalment of the blog. With love and prayers, Daile. X
ReplyDeleteWhat a lovely post! There are not many people in the world who would embrace change as well as you both have done. I will never forget how much love I received from you both and your family. I look forward to receiving next month's post and hearing about all the love you're spreading! Lots of love Sap :) x
ReplyDeleteGlad you've arrived safely. Looking forward to your next post and following your adventures! Xo
ReplyDeleteDo they drive right or left hand side in Peru
ReplyDeleteOn the right
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